By Rabbi Shmuley Boteach for COLlive
This week the G-20 leaders met in London and pronounced a stirring indictment of humanity. Our bankers can’t be trusted. Unwatched and unregulated, people plus property equals corruption. The solution: massive and stringent new government oversight and regulation.
The sad story of our shrunken investments is the corrosion of our values. Past economic downturns were blamed on cycles. What goes up must come down.
Not this time. It was our greed and self-indulgence that killed the goose that laid the golden eggs. The greatest economy in world history laid low by our own lowliness. Once we became awash with money we became corrupt with materialism. Love was replaced with gifts. Time spent with friends replaced with time spent on Facebook. And feeding the hungry replaced with feeding our insatiable appetite for attention.
Whoa. I was raised to believe that an open democratic society is built on the belief that people are ultimately trustworthy. Did not Thomas Jefferson wage a pitched battle against Alexander Hamilton, the first secretary of the treasury, about the goodness inherent in individuals with Jefferson’s vision winning out?
Very few of us are immune to the corruption that today swirls around us, including we who are Jewish and observant. We are guilty of being religious without being spiritual, of being orthodox without necessarily being moral, of praying to the heavens while trying to accumulate as much as we can on earth.
In pondering this cynical view of humankind my thoughts led me to the Lubavitcher Rebbe, and not only because this Sunday marks his 107th birthday. Rather, as I watch a country that I love awash in fraudulence I was wondering whether there are people who are inured to the temptations of money and power. And as I rummaged through my mind’s Rolodex the one who stood out as having never benefited from his position was the Rebbe.
The Jewish world remembers the Rebbe as a visionary leader who rescued Jewish observance from terminal decline. And that’s why he’s been partially forgotten, the feeling being that Jewish outreach which he pioneered is doing perfectly well without him. What we forget is that the Rebbe realized his global vision not due to exceptional organizational skills but because of personal righteousness. More than anything else the Rebbe was a tzadik. His moral authority was such that it inspired in all who met him a desire to be better. Seeing how he spent no money on himself, his followers gave more charity. Seeing how he never took a day off, his disciples moved to the far reaches of the globe to spread G-d’s message of love. And seeing the affection he accorded all who came to see him his admirers opened their homes to thousands of hungry strangers.
It was his personal righteousness that was decisive. The Rebbe’s global outposts comprised millions of meters but he himself lived within the few hundred square feet of his own office. He was regularly visited by world leaders but he most came to life when he spoke to children.
And that’s what America is missing today. We are becoming corrupt because we have few models of outstanding righteousness. America has many example of success but few examples of high moral rectitude. We have politicians who are gifted communicators and we have celebrities who do good deeds. But we don’t have towering moral giants.
What America desperately needs today is an engine to motivate us that isn’t money. The desire to be righteous provides it. There is no greater feeling of satisfaction than the conviction that you have become a decent and good person. And there is no pleasure greater than liberation from the ego.
Righteousness is found in the respect we accord others. Twice a week the Rebbe would travel to the grave of his father-in-law and pray for the thousands who wrote to him for guidance. But was a mark of his extraordinary sensitivity that, though in his late eighties, he refused to ever sit in the presence of the resting place of his wife’s father.
Now, every year hundreds of thousands make pilgrimages to the same site because he too is now buried there. But where we pray for success he prayed for redemption. Where we pray for the health of our investments he prayed for the health of other people’s children. And where we pray for upward mobility he prayed for that those in pain be lifted from misery.
A few months after the Rebbe died I was forced by the Chabad leadership in the UK to relinquish my position as his emissary in Oxford after I had appointed an African-American Rhodes scholar as President of our student organization. They objected to the thousands of non-Jews who had joined our organization. What none of us could have predicted was that that this dear friend whom I had exposed to the Rebbe and who in-turn taught me of the great African-American leaders would later go on to become not only one of the most inspirational public figures in American public life but also, as a non-Jew, the foremost exponent of Jewish values to Jewish audiences in the United States. Mayor Cory Booker of Newark has inspired countless Jews around the country to reembrace their the heritage and with his vast Torah knowledge has inspired them to become more Jewishly knowledgeable.
Today it is Cory who reminds me of the Rebbe’s righteousness and my need to walk in his footsteps even when I am wounded and in pain. “The Rebbe was about love, Shmuley. Let others poison his legacy. But he believed in you and you must never let him down.”
It has long been the shortcoming of Chabad to make the Rebbe known within Jewish circles but not beyond them, as if the non-Jewish world does not yearn for the same liberation from the tyranny of the ego and the bondage of the self as much as we Jews.
– Rabbi Shmuley Boteach has just launched ‘Turn Friday Night Into Family Night,” a national TV ad campaign to mainstream the Jewish Sabbath. His newest best-seller is ‘The Kosher Sutra.’ www.shmuley.com.
This article personifies Shmuely Boteach. Brilliant, eloquent, passionate. About all the right things. And then just as you are enjoying the gift he often is, he reminds you that he has lost his way and his elevator is stopping at the wrong floor. At what moment in his life did he decide that its ok to air laundry in public? Can he really convince himself that the Rebbe would be happy with him for it? And finally, I applaud Shmuley’s embracing of Goyim. I think its great and I think the Rebbe would be proud of him for it. To… Read more »
The fact that he wants to come back to Chabad should speak volumes about him.
The fact the the talented Booker is making it big and is a major backer of Jewish causes does not justify what you did – don’t fool yourself. Reaching out to Gentiles is a commendable thing and the Rebbe indeed encouraged that. But that is should not be mixed up with a Chabad house / JEWISH outreach. You could have established a non-Jewish association. But not invite non-Jews to Shabbat dinners and singles events. You have a lot going for yourself and in a sense have made it in life, but please don’t rewrite history. You choose your own destiny,… Read more »
That Cory Booker’s mother is actually Jewish?
Besides that part about the reason why he SB was forced to leave Chabad at Oxford – which has another side to it, rather than what he wrote… it’s a beautiful article.
Shmuely has so much to offer the world, let him continue to do so in an aidel and refined manner. He’s got their ears now, he can cut the grubkeit now and talk in a tzniusdig way, the way the Rebbe would have wanted him to communicate his ideas.