By Rochel Duchman
Step into the thrilling world of today’s dating, where the scene has undergone a dramatic transformation! On one side, it’s a whole new realm, a vibrant playground buzzing with excitement. On the flip side, the age-old adage “Nothing new Under the Sun” hints at the timeless aspects that persist.
Picture this: a dynamic landscape where young men and women are empowered with a tremendous amount of tools and keys, thanks to the guidance of expert coaches. They’re not just dipping their toes into the dating pool; they’re diving in with a strategic plan for success! Imagine the thrill as they navigate through dates, learning the art of progression and setting themselves up for triumph.
In my extensive years of coaching, I’ve witnessed the emergence of fascinating questions from both girls and boys. These queries, presented here in a kaleidoscopic mix, are a testament to the curious and ever-evolving nature of the dating game. Buckle up for a non-chronological journey through some of the most frequently asked questions, each accompanied by its own captivating answer.
1- What are appropriate topics to discuss on a first date?
2- Is the Shidduch crisis real?
3- What if I want to go home in the middle of the date but don’t want to offend my date?
4- What are you most afraid of when it comes to dating?
5- It’s my second date- how do I know that he is right for me?
6- Do I need a coach before I start the Shidduch/ Dating process?
7- Is dating one size fits all?
8- How do I find direction while waiting?
9-What is the proper age gap when dating?
10-How do you stay confident after getting so many no’s in Shidduchim?
11- What is the appropriate time frame to be dating someone?
12- How can someone coach both the man and the woman at the same time and not be a conflict of interest?
13-Which parent should be involved with my Shidduchim?
14- How do I choose which friend to put on my resume?
Watch the video below as Rochel takes us through every Q&A thoughtfully and with care!
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I’m happily engaged after being coached by Mrs Duchman.
She Brought me clarity and confidence …to make this life time decision…..
Thank You !
This video was reassuring. Shows that most people go through the same shidduchim challenges.