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A Regrettable Ski Vacation

A well-to-do Crown Heights family recently learned the hard way not to travel in close proximity to Shabbos and yomtov. Full Story

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to #2 and editors
June 20, 2011 1:34 pm

please don’t allow ignoramus people post halachas on your posts, according to halacha if you have everything ready fro you in the place you are traveling to you are allowed to travel anytime till shabbos

I wonder, too!
June 19, 2011 10:19 am

Indeed, what does the word “wealthy” have to do with the story? Are you trying to imply that because the family is rich, they do what they want, whenever they want? Maybe money affords them certain luxuries, but money doesn’t afford them a different set of standards . How would the story have been received if the word “wealthy” were left out? Try it and see!

Why not?
June 17, 2011 6:48 pm

Why, #2, do you not let your husband pick up people landing less than 2 hours away from shabbos? Also, what do you mean by “do not let him”? I am confused by both comments, in that I’m thinking a passenger might need a ride 20 minutes away, your husband could still be home in time. Also, it sounds like you are his boss, when you say “don’t let”. Do you mean “ask him not to”?

I am #8
June 16, 2011 5:33 pm

Chassidim do not eat out on pessach – it is explicit in our minhogim and trite (something everyone knows).

As a person involved in hechsherim, I am personally aware of many times that hechsherim rely on heterim of bitul etc – which does not apply to pessach.

I have known mistakes that allowed gebrockts and even non-shmurah matzah to be served to cusomers who insisted on non-gebrokts and shmurah!

I am also aware of kitniyus that was mistakenly used in a soup served to a very large oilem.

to 8
June 15, 2011 9:47 pm

speak for yourself. that is a very big generalization

savta
June 15, 2011 6:57 pm

I am so sorry to hear Jews ‘speaking’ so disrespectfully to and about each other

To#21
June 15, 2011 5:16 pm

Just because you can’t go away doesn’t mean other people can’t either.you don’t know peoples reasons for going away so don’t interfere and look at your family and tell THEM not to go away!

"Total Hefkairus"
June 15, 2011 2:51 pm

To #3 etc. A you a Rov? If you are, why do you not identify yourself or at least your sources? Since when is Halacha a matter to be decided by “how I think about it” and publicized on on the internet?????

To 8
June 15, 2011 12:09 pm

you are looser.

Wow!
June 15, 2011 11:27 am

Planned to spend Pesach abroad…..
In a foreign country…….
Landing on Erev Yom Tov…..
Had no food…..
How large of a family?
Sounds like experienced travelers…..

divray freidiker rebbe
June 14, 2011 11:26 pm

in a letter to an individual he wrote to come home 3 hrs before shabbos, not later than two in the winter, and four in the summer

the moral is.....
June 14, 2011 11:09 pm

STAY HOME FOR YOM TOV!!!
ESPECIALLY PESACH!!
were there not enough stories of being in a terrible situation, no food, no simchas yom tov, just aggravation, shelling out thousands of dollars, being ripped off by crooks, etc. etc. All because….”you just “can’t” be “home” for pesach!?”….
STAY HOME!!! It’s cheaper, it’s happier & it’s more KOSHER!!
DALOI MISHUGAAS

reason for not traveling
June 14, 2011 9:53 pm

Is because you will not have time to prepare not in case you get stuck…

cle
June 14, 2011 9:48 pm

its also hashgacha protis to learn from one’s decisions, and attempt to do it more in a way which goes towards the halacha of shmiras shabbos and shmiras of all mitzvos.

Its Austria
June 14, 2011 9:43 pm

See Austria is still not welcoming to the Yidden. Could of gone to Eretz Yisroel, no road closures because of snow storms guaranteed and if you got stuck, well walk in any direction and you would have found some good yid

Amazing
June 14, 2011 9:39 pm

Look Hashem how careful your people are in keeping Yomtov they would not desecrate Yomtov even if it means they are hungry.
MI KAAMCHO YISROEL

to #7
June 14, 2011 9:38 pm

whoa…ok. Glad u let off some steam.

Even not well-to-do families
June 14, 2011 9:07 pm

should not travel in close proximity to Shabbos!

and?
June 14, 2011 8:42 pm

whats the point of writing they were a well to do family?? mah hakesher?

To #7
June 14, 2011 8:39 pm

anyone can be a chossid of our Rebbe. He is the Rebbe of all Bnei Yisroel, which includes all types of yidden and personalities. Let’s have the kind of ahavas yisroel our Rebbe taught us.

Oh, and #7
June 14, 2011 8:37 pm

How dare you invoke “our Rebbe” in support of your casual treatment of halacha? Chabad mont mesirus nefesh! This family did exactly the right thing, and we should be proud of them. Oh, and #2, the law about not traveling after chatzos only applies if you are not expected at your destination, and they have no idea you’re coming. You can’t drop in on someone two hours before Shabbos and expect them to put you up! But if they know you’re coming and are preparing for you, you are allowed to travel right up to Shabbos. Unlike #3/7’s kula, this… Read more »

#3, and #7, are you a reform "rabbi"?
June 14, 2011 8:27 pm

There is NO pikuach nefesh, as evidenced by the *fact* that they survived just fine. That you would have ruled “pikuach nefesh” just proves what an am ho’oretz and kal you are.

And what sort of heter did you find “above” halacha to have a goy drive them? Besides amira lenochri, what about the techum?

Good time to post this
June 14, 2011 8:21 pm

with the summer upon us, and Friday trips to the
Catskills, etc, though the message is very relevant
year round!

to #7
June 14, 2011 7:42 pm

everyone is different. just because you didnt like the reaction of #6, doesn’t mean that you could say that he can’t possibly be a chossid of your rebbe.
that was rude.

Since when does a "chosid" go to hotels for pessach?
June 14, 2011 7:35 pm

Chassidim (even non-Lubavitchers) don’t mish (eat out by others) on pessach, kal v’chomer at a hotel. Hashgacha protis they were saved from eating out on pessach!

to #6 the av beis din
June 14, 2011 6:58 pm

Having no food and being in a foreign country with roads closes because of snow storms sounds pretty life threatening to me. Young kids with no food for 2 days? I hope you judge yourself so sternly. You must not be a chosid of OUR REBBE.

no pekuach nefesh
June 14, 2011 6:50 pm

there was no life threat. just an inconvenience. they were perfectly fine health wise

Erev Shabbos - Holy day
June 14, 2011 6:34 pm

Growing up..my parents instilled in us that it’s a “Sakhona” to travel on Friday. Of course, there are always things that come up last minute….but to know that you will be landing on Erev Yom Tov in a foreign country and don’t know the roads so well…that is really putting yourself in a precarious situation. Come the day before. I’ve tried to give over the same message to my children that my parents gave me about traveling erev Shabbos or Yom Tov. I can’t say it works all the time. In my youth we were all ready in our Shabbos… Read more »

great....................... and?
June 14, 2011 6:26 pm
according to halacha
June 14, 2011 6:16 pm

because of pikuach nefesh they were allowed to continue driving until they got to their hotel. and if they wanted to go above halacha they could of paid a goy to continue the drive and they can just stay seated in the car

sorry for ur dissapointment but....
June 14, 2011 5:18 pm

please everyone learn the halachos of not travelling near chatzot on friday my husband is a taxi driver and quite a few times i’ve not let him pick up people landing 2 hours before shabbos …

Hashgacha Protis
June 14, 2011 5:16 pm

Wherever a chossid goes and whatever happens to a chossid is all part of the divine plan. Every single detail in this story is Hashgacha Protis, you never know what an impact this situation has made.

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