Rabbi Areyah Kaltmann is the first to admit he doesn’t fit the profile of a disciplined dieter.
He craves chocolate and sweet potatoes. He hasn’t exercised much lately. And he really hates feeling denied.
Still, the executive director of the Schottenstein Chabad House is a weight-loss success story.
Kaltmann, 5 feet 8 inches tall, once weighed 265 pounds. Now he’s at 205, on his way to a goal of 183.
He made it this far by turning not to diet gurus or personal trainers but to the teachings of his own faith. He focused on Kabbalah, or Jewish mysticism, which he defines as a spiritual quest to understand God and the soul, and how limited beings such as people can accomplish extraordinary things.
He has taken this perspective and made it into a six-week course that will meet Wednesdays, starting Jan. 27, at the Lori Schottenstein Chabad Center for a Jewish Tomorrow in New Albany.
Every weight-loss program needs a name and tag line, of course. Kaltmann chose “Diet Divine: The Kabalistic Secret to Weight Loss.”
The course is planned as a mix of theology and practical advice, plus lots of scriptural and personal stories from the gregarious rabbi. What it won’t offer is a specific diet and exercise plan — Kaltmann is the first to acknowledge he’s no nutritionist or personal trainer.
He’s simply trying to help people look at food and self-control differently. There’s plenty of basis for that in Jewish texts, he said, including some by a Kabbalist rabbi who lived 250 years ago and wrote about imperfection.
Kaltmann will teach that God is most happy when imperfect people overcome their limitations, such as a tendency to binge.
“According to Jewish mystical teachings, it’s OK to be imperfect,” he said. “If God just wanted angels, he didn’t have to create the world.”
He will talk about the belief that the human head sits above the heart because the mind must rule over emotions, which often lead to compulsive eating.
He’ll cite Maimonides, the great rabbi who lived 800 years ago and wrote a book about nutrition. Maimonides said to eat until you’re three-quarters full and then stop, Kaltmann said.
The Talmud teaches that food should be eaten slowly and savored.
And Kaltmann will point out that “saying no is really saying yes.”
“When you say no to unhealthy food, you’re saying yes to your family, you’re saying yes to a healthy life,” he said. “You’re saying yes to feeling like a human being and not an animal.”
Kaltmann started losing weight about six months ago, inspired to be healthier for his wife of 18 years and his eight children, ages 1 to 17.
He also felt like a hypocrite counseling people to give up their addictions when he had his own — food.
Kaltmann will help the people in his class see that being fit will allow them to enjoy life more.
But that doesn’t preclude a little chocolate on the Sabbath.
Rabbi Koltmann is a great guy and a wonderful shliach. He, his wife and kids are so sweet and caring. I had a great summer and will always remember their kindnesses.
check out http://www.soveya.com – similar idea
good on you Uncle Areyah! You are the greatest!!!! lots of love from all your adoring nieces and nephews in Australia.
Well done R. Areyah SH’y!
A great effort! I remember when you were living in Australia growing up in Melbourne as a kid and you were a regular size!
Well done you are example to all of us!
Your parents SH’y and Family and fiends in AUstralia will be proud!
Your mate
Shai Mend
why dont you start a support group?
i will be your first attendee
get rid of white bread and pasta. stick with whole grain stuff. cut out sugar. there is no mitzvah to serve cake!!!!
Meila by the poilisher where every dish on shabbos is a whole avodah–fine. but by lubavitch??
even on shabbos, or whenever food is required, lubavitch custom is not to be so machmir on enjoying food. ask your mashpia for the source in igros kodesh of the Rebbe Rayatz.
I knew that you could do it. What about Max.Love from Savta Jacqueline
I’m the one who posted number 7. I also happen to be a Shliach and have taken courses in health and fitness. I know that it seems daunting, but start with small steps; “Rome was not built in one day”. Here are some tips: Start by adding healthy foods, such as fresh salads, artichoke for dinner, steamed broccoli and so on. Educate yourself and your children. You should realize that scientifically proven studies show that following the 5 steps I mentioned reduce chronic illnesses by 75%! Simply put, this means that if you and your children continue eat all the… Read more »
Rabbi Areyah, you are one amazing guy!! This is a very inspiring and true to life story! To the balebosta from Crown Heights, I am a mother of a large family also. I would say that we should just try to gradually reduce the amount of nash that we bring into our homes. Try to get the schools/educators/ your friends more aware of healthy eating for a healthier life. Here in Australia there are many families who are into healthy food B”H. As we heard from our Rebbeim, ” a kleiner lechele in guf iz a groise loch in neshomah”….… Read more »
It is heartwarming to see all the positive feedback. I wanted to respond to post #10. I understand where you are coming from and I grapple with the same issues. You can contact me at areyahkaltmann@sbcglobal.net. I would be happy to send you notes on the classes and to help in any way I can.
Lots of Brochos,
Areyah Kaltmann
great article
i am a mother of a large family, here in crown heights. i am always hosting guests, and gatherings in my home. i find it very difficult not to bring in nash and other unhealthy bakery goods in my home. if the entire environment here is not focused on healthy foods how can i do it here in my own home? the kids go to school and i try to give them healthy snacks but theuy still want the sugar stuff. i feel everyone together should start cutting out ubhealthy fod from their homes and then i wont feel like… Read more »
Well done!
You always had kind words (& money) for us, whenever we called you the past 8 years. Keep making the Jews happy.
Rabbi Kaltmann !…Its great to see your happy picture.
Chabad of Alon Moreh – Shechem
1. Don’t smoke. 2. Only drink in moderation. 3. Eat a diet with lots of fresh veggies and some fruit. Cut out processed foods. 4. Stop eating before you’re totally full. 5. Exercise vigorously 5 times a week for at least 30 minutes. I’m living proof: I’m a 6 foot 4 33 year old Lubavitcher father, 174 lbs, healthy, and happy. I have low bad cholesterol, good levels of good cholesterol, great resting heart rate, and YOU can do it too! Trust me, if you don’t think that you’re worth it, do it for your spouse and kids; they definitely… Read more »
Very happy for your iskafia accomplishment, B”H u look gr8
AN
We need this right here
Rabbi Kaltmann is an awesome guy
Hatzlacha! – Schneur
Get yourself a good PR person and give it a more exotic name like the “Askafya Diet” and you have it made!!!
Your good mate down under
Excellent idea.
Most of us are too busy in our lives to think about what to eat and just grab the easiest things around (more often than not, unhealthy)
We should stop and think and be healthier