By Jennifer Bleyer, lubavitch.com
Under rhythmic beats of café jazz and club electronica, a string of young women paraded down the catwalk, as lithe as contestants on “America’s Next Top Model.” They wore playful confections made of gauzy fabric and delicate trim. The bohemian chic skirts and couture-style gowns they modeled looked well suited to the fashion week tents of New York or Milan.
But this was neither. Rather, it was Ecole Beth Menachem, a Jewish school in the city of Lyon in the south of France where, to demonstrate that women’s clothing can be fashionable but also hew to Jewish standards of modesty, students and teachers banded together last June to host a special fashion show. They solicited garments from French designers that included skirt hems below the knee, sleeves below the elbow and collarbones covered, and hundreds of people from the area crowded in to see the designs.
There were nods of appreciation for the ankle-length floral skirts, and pictures were snapped of the long banana yellow dress worn over platform heels. But the loudest applause and glee from the audience was for a pair of sleek skirt and jacket sets in denim fabric.
This was to be the school’s new uniform for girls.
The significance of introducing a school uniform in fashion-conscious France, where young women pay acute attention to their clothing and appearance, cannot be underestimated. And as teachers and administrators from Beth Menachem recalled, the road getting there was not a quick and easy one.
Sarah Gurewitz, Chabad representative to Lyons, cofounded the school as a small kindergarten in 1982, and now it has grown to an enrollment of nearly 600 students from kindergarten through 12th grade. Still serving as the school’s principal, she had the idea to introduce uniforms several years ago as she noticed that the upper grade girls were becoming increasingly invested in their clothing, to the point of being obsessed with brands and competitive with each other.
Broaching the idea was a delicate endeavor in Lyon, where no other school has uniforms, as explained by Edela Gurewitz, Sarah’s daughter-in-law and a Jewish studies teacher at Beth Menachem.
“For a few years, she was talking about it to the parents and teachers, but in France it’s not part of the culture. Now this year, she ended up doing it. She thought that if the children think less of clothes, they can put more into their studies.”
Knowing that the students would not consent to wearing anything that didn’t conform to their high fashion standards, Mrs. Gurewitz solicited the help of a parent from the school who is also a fashion designer. He came up with a few variations of outfits that were unveiled at the June fashion show, which girls between the ages of 11 and 16 were to begin wearing to school in September.
The uniform the students ultimately chose is a light colored denim fabric skirt with a tiny flare below the knee, and a matching fitted jacket with prominent brass buttons, subtle ribbons over punchy pockets and slightly flared shoulders. The silhouette it strikes is sophisticated and sleek, and by all accounts, the girls have been delighted with it.
“My daughter Rivka is 13, and in the beginning when she heard about the uniform, she was not happy about it,” said Lidia Azoulay, who also works as an administrator at the school. “But when she saw how easy it became to get dressed in the morning, she loved it. There had been problems of competition between the children from rich parents and the children from poor parents, but now there is no problem.”
Another mother from the school, Aida Nemenov, said that both she and her 11-year-old daughter Zelda were thrilled with the new uniform. “Zelda told me that all the girls in the class are very happy. They all feel the same, and at that age that’s very important. They feel good because it’s not old style—it shows you can be modern and modest too. And as a parent, I’m telling you, it’s much better economically. I buy two or three uniforms, and I’m not passing my time buying clothes the whole year.”
The uniform has been such a hit that girls report feeling proud to be seen wearing it in the fashionable shopping districts of Lyon after school, and parents and teachers from other schools in the area have expressed interest in replicating the idea. Mrs. Nemenov said that when her family has guests to their home, they inevitably ask if they can see the famed uniform they have heard so much about.
And far from the initial skepticism around the idea of introducing a school uniform in fashion obsessed Lyon, now everyone in the school seems to want one.
“My eight-year-old girl is asking, ‘Why don’t we have the uniform?'” said Mrs. Azoulay. “And the boys are asking, ‘Why don’t we get a uniform?'”
Soon, in fact. They are in the works.
EVERYONE…………….CHILL_OUT!!!!!!
they’re.just.having.fun!
Giving self-richeous tznius speaches will not go anywhere. In fact, you are pushing young girls further away and turning them off from wanting to be tznius.
Very nice that there was a tznius fashion show, where girls can express themselves, and still follow the rules.
come on wake everybody!!!!! how many of theses comenters are Shluchim?????? do you know what Mivtzoim is?? are you aware that we are talking about non frumg girls????
No video??????
but not wuite… brought through propably
What impreses me is not the tailoring. or the modesty. It cuts me to think how the poorer girls strive to keep up with the richer. This is a true reality in many, many schools, and here is a fine example of a teamwork committed to leveling that class difference. All of us who are in the chinuch feild should learn from the staff of Beth Menachem.
For all you critics, this is not an Anash Lubavitch Community, it’s in Lyon France, Non Lubavitchers not to religious, it was made to be MEKAREV, and a creative way to get them to be modest.
Wow, those are really bad uniforms.. this is coming from a ch br girl
This event did a world of good. It is very easy to criticize, hard to go on Shlichus and make a real change..
this is not fit for a bas chabad i dont like the smirk, the pose, hairdos,ect.
people are very pathetic anything anyone does is analyzed that is not exactly ahavas yisrael and if i recall thats very important.
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it is progressive no doubt
though jewish music is very important in this tone beileve it or not
are we trying to be cooler then the goyishe cool can it be done? i dunno
I think the Rebbe would be very proud.
As far as all the belly aching goes, I really think you have to present things to today’s youth in a more productive way, such as this event instead of just giving mussar the whole day, which is just a big turn off.
Thank You Lubavitch.com for realizing that.
Thank you Rabbi Krinsky and Lubavitch.com, for creating a website, that has such well written and thought provoking articles.
Yasher Koiach!
well said!!!!!!
from a mother of 6 (kein ayin hara)
If you have complaints or other stomach aches – go to Rabbi Y Krinsky who is the owner the publisher of LUBAVITCH.COM where this story was originally published
A fashion show like this is the best way to reinforce tznius for this age group!
It can accomplish more than 100 articles or posters in 770.
If the girls want denim, let it be denim. Denim is a practical, washable material, never see-through or clingy. Maybe it is not the right style for Crown Hts or Kfar Habad, but wearing denim in Lyon is not making any kind of statement.
Covering up is mandated by halachah, but style and appropriateness varies from place to place.
Totally unfitting for a worldwide Chabad website to display pictures of young women….all the more so with the emphasis on copying a secular “fashion model” idea.
It can only have a better effect on girls [I’m not saying we would do this in Crown Heights or Chicago – who mainly have anash students]
The yetzer harah starts slowly and carefully sneaking in the back door…vhamaskil yavin
DID THEY REALLY NEED TO HAVE A FASHION SHOW JUST TO PICK SOME SCHOOL UNIFORM??
“sultry beats of cafe jazz and club electronica, a string of young women strutted down the catwalk”. I never thought I’d be reading these typeof descriptions in an official Lubavitch article. Why do all the Chabad websites now have Israel-Gaza updates that aren’t mivtzoim related? Are we just another news outlet?
But, it doesn’t seem an appropriate place to put this, seems a bit un tznius to have girls pictures posted like this. Noticed that when the simchas are posted that most of the pics are of the men not woman. Just my humble opinion.
I don’t think putting this up on a public site like this is very appropriate?
EXCUSE ME! PRITZUS!!
Incredible school and work that you do, Chazak- Keep it up until the coming of mOshiach!!!!!!!
This is the way to teach us tznius – not Mrs. Korf/M Resnick’s way
a proud BR girl.
the law is that knees must be covered at all times.
hat will not be the case for sure by the girl on the rightand the left sides.
that’s for sure.
catwalking isn’t appropriate anyway.
sorry to say, but if you don’t understand it yourselves…
hilerious!!
Tznius is not just an issue of dress (covering the elbows and knees). It must also include the way a person acts and presents him/herself. One is not to be advertising themselves like this in public. (I also see a likeness to the fashion industry with the way they are portraying themselves.) We as Lubavitchers have a very good model to copy. That is – the way the Rebetzin, Chaya Mushka OB”M portrayed herself. She seeked the opposite of the publics attention. We, as Lubavitcher Chassidim need to set a higher standard for ourselves. We should not be emulating the… Read more »
more pics?